The passionate, unapologetically outspoken, tough-as-nails star of Lifetime's phenomenal hits Dance Moms, Abby's Ultimate Dance Competition, and Abby's Studio Rescue offers inspirational, tough-love guidance for parents who want to help their children succeed and for readers of all ages striving to become the best they can beIf you want to help your kid reach the top, you can find no better coach than Abby Lee Miller. While some may criticize her methods, no one argues with her results. Her kids excel, her teams win, and her alumni go on to Broadway careers.This straight-talking guide provides clear and proven advice for achieving success. Each chapter is organized by "Abbyisms"--Abby's term for her unique and effective philosophies on hard work, competition, and life. Abby answers difficult questions from real moms, shares all the stories fans want to hear, and includes vignettes from shining graduates who give their take on her singular approach and how it helped them make their dreams come true.From figuring out your child's passion to laying the groundwork for an exciting future career, Abby knows how to achieve optimal results in the dance studio and beyond.