Discusses what black males fear most, their longing for intimacy, the pitfalls of patriarchy, and the destruction of oppression through redemption and love. Are black men cool, or are they despised? This text goes beyond the usual analysis of the black male - difficult childhood, white racism, poverty - to ask questions which other books are unwilling to address, examining what black males fear most and probing the depths of their longing for intimacy, for fathers and for meaningful relationships. Preface about black men: don't believe the hype
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Chapter 1 plantation patriarchy
1(14)
Chapter 2 gangsta culture: a piece of the action
15(18)
Chapter 3 schooling black males
33(14)
Chapter 4 don't make me hurt you: black male violence
47(20)
Chapter 5 it's a dick thing: beyond sexual acting out
67(18)
Chapter 6 from angry boys to angry men
85(16)
Chapter 7 waiting for daddy to come home: black male parenting
101(14)
Chapter 8 doing the work of love
115(18)
Chapter 9 healing the hurt
133(14)
Chapter 10 the coolness of being real
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