"Helps men and women understand the inner fears of the male species to make life and love easier on everyone"--Provided by publisher The author of the million-selling Every Man's Battle series courageously exposes what men said they think, feel and question – about themselves, their work, their marriage and family, their finances, and their faith – but don't talk about. The strength it takes to keep your secrets safe can be redirected to make a better life and a stronger you. Introduction: Why Men Keep Secrets vii SECTION 1: SECRETS ABOUT FINANCES, FAME, AND FAMILY Financial Security: Now and Then 1(9) It's a Worker's World 10(9) Parents' Expectations: A Heavy Weight Even for Men 19(9) Who's Bringing Home the Bacon? 28(9) ``Me Time'' for Men 37(9) Daddy Dearest 46(13) SECTION 2: SECRETS ABOUT FEELINGS Sharing What's on the Inside 59(9) Wanted: Male Bonding 68(9) Living Well and Long 77(10) Romance and Excitement in Life 87(10) Total Commitment 97(12) SECTION 3: SECRETS ABOUT SPIRITUALITY Wake Me Up When Church Is Over 109(9) Being a True Spiritual Leader 118(11) Spiritual Inadequacy 129(12) SECTION 4: SECRETS ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS WITH WOMEN Communicating with Women 141(11) Praise the Performance, Love the Man 152(10) A Matter of Respect 162(9) Meeting Her Needs 171(10) Success: The Intimidation Factor 181(9) Did I Marry the Wrong Woman? 190(13) SECTION 5: SECRETS ABOUT SEXUALITY There's an Ego in My Bed! 203(10) Men Have Sexual Fantasies---So What's New? 213(9) Pornography: A Community Standard 222(9) Must I Take the Lead...Again? 231(10) Why Appearance Matters 241(12) Conclusion: From Secrets to Solutions 253(10) Appendix: ``Men's Life Satisfaction'' Survey 263(12) Notes 275