This is a book for anyone who has moved or is about to move beyond their home country. Helena Andre explores the six psychological stages every expatriate experiences — from the initial departure to the often-complex process of returning home. In a warm and conversational style, Helena blends personal storytelling, insights from fellow expatriates, and contributions from recognised experts in intercultural communication and expatriation, to offer practical help and support for anyone facing the challenges of living abroad. In the words of Liza Miezejeski, Helena “has filled these pages with tools and wisdom that will empower, energize, and inspire you”. . CONTENTS PART 1: PREPARING FOR DEPARTURE Introduction: the emotional journey of leaving Chapter 1. The five psychological stages of starting anew Chapter 2. Practical preparations for departures Chapter 3. Navigating relationships and emotional balance Chapter 4. Comfort, learning and panic zones Chapter 5. Conclusion: trust the process PART 2: LEAVING: THE HONEYMOON PERIOD Chapter 6. Setting up the new chapter in your life Chapter 7. The “yes” period: saying yes to the unknown Chapter 8. Decoding cultural nuances: Geert Hofstede’s cultural dimensions theory Chapter 9. Conclusion: the art of starting anew PART 3: FRUSTRATION Chapter 10. From magic to mirrors: when the honeymoon ends Chapter 11. Building pillars: relationships and belonging Chapter 12. Love across cultures: the trials and triumphs Chapter 13. Overwhelmed by options: the paradox of choice Chapter 14. Conclusion: from frustration to growth – turning challenges into belonging PART 4: ADJUSTMENT Chapter 15. Adjustment: the space between struggle and stability Chapter 16. The expat FOMO dilemma Chapter 17. People make places: building meaningful relationships Chapter 18. Sitting between two chairs: cultural identity and integration Chapter 19. Daring to dream – and taking control of your journey Chapter 20. Conclusion: the art of belonging without losing yourself PART 5: ACCEPTANCE AND REPEAT Chapter 21. When is acceptance reached? Chapter 22. The science of happiness: understanding our hormones Chapter 23. The expat archetypes – where do you fit? Chapter 24. The great return: closing a cycle, not an identity Chapter 25. Conclusion: acceptance as a continuous journey PART 6: PREPARING TO RETURN HOME Chapter 26. The emotional complexity of first returning home Chapter 27. Repatriation and reverse culture shock: the final expat challenge Chapter 28. Reconstructing identity: finding peace in uncertainty Chapter 29. Making the decision: should I stay or should I go? Chapter 30. Overcoming fear, judgement, and self-doubt Chapter 31. Conclusion: redefining home on your own terms Epilogue: Embracing change, finding home About the Author Helena Andre is a PhD researcher, career coach, facilitator, and well-being practitioner, specialising in emotional resilience, intercultural communication, and supporting expatriates through career transitions and identity shifts