A new and simple system to understanding and controlling the behavior of others Noted body language, behavior and communication expert Mark Bowden offers a totally practical, easy-to-read guide to understanding the impulsive actions of others, along with the best tools to manage them. A new and simple system to understanding and controlling the behavior of others Noted body language, behavior and communication expert Mark Bowden offers a totally practical, easy-to-read guide to understanding the impulsive actions of others, along with the best tools to manage them. Acknowledgements Preface Introduction WEEK ONE: YOU Day One: Shared Instincts Day Two: Snap Judgements Day Three: Default to the Negative Day Four: Best Fit Thinking Day Five: Friend, Enemy, Sex, or Indifferent Day Six: Moods and Emotions Day Seven: The Spice of Life WEEK TWO: RELATIONSHIPS Day Eight: Relationships Are Dyadic Day Nine: Opposites Attract Day Ten: BFF Day Eleven: Enemies Day Twelve: Indifference Day Thirteen: Moods Are Contagious Day Fourteen: The Four Stages of Relationship WEEK THREE: TRIBE Day Fifteen: We Are Tribal Day Sixteen: Tribal Nurture Day Seventeen: Hierarchy Day Eighteen: Tension Day Nineteen: Values Day Twenty: Diversity Day Twenty-One: Changing Tribes is Expensive WEEK FOUR: NEW YOU Day Twenty-Two: Suspend Judgement Day Twenty-Three: Be Curious Day Twenty-Four: Open Your Heart Day Twenty-Five: Give Day Twenty-Six: Manage Your Disappointment Day Twenty-Seven: Values Trump Rules Day Twenty-Eight: Expand Your Tribe Conclusion Bibliography