The third book in The Transformation Series, this sequel to Transforming the Inner Man and God's Power to Change focuses on relationships and events that disable us from being able to relate and communicate with others effectively. By applying the scriptural principles for healing in this book, we can confidently: - Build and maintain healthy relationships with spiritual and biological parents - Create the right balance between "bearing one another's burdens" and allowing healthy separation as we empower others to grow and flourish - Find true oneness in marriage relationships - Become effective, contributing parts of society The Transformation Series is a four-book collection that walks readers through the process of being renewed in mind and heart by the transforming power of the cross. It will lead to wholeness and balance personally and within the body of Christ. Introduction 1(4) Growing Up Again---in Christ 5(22) You Are Not Your Parents' Father or Mother 27(16) Finding Identity and Calling 43(32) Becoming One Means Really Leaving Father and Mother 75(24) Strength in Oneness 99(12) Toward Sexual Wholeness: Becoming Christlike in Our Humanness 111(32) Healing Gender Identity Issues 143(26) He's Not Heavy---He's My Brother 169(44) Fitting In to the Body of Christ 213(16) Notes 229